It is unfortunate that, in today’s society, the value of social graces tends to be overlooked. The truth is, these are essential skills that enable us to act politely and appropriately in social situations. This is why personality development training has become increasingly important, as  it helps individuals grow in confidence, professionalism, and grace when interacting with others.

Social Graces and Personality Development are two of the topics I really love teaching, and I was glad I got to do so for the Philippine Army Signal Regiment (ASR). My session with them took place on December 13, 2017 at the NCO Clubhouse of the Philippine Army. The goal of this personality development workshop in the Philippines was to teach the participants the proper concept of social graces to help develop their self-awareness, manners, and overall personality.

I was invited to speak by Major (SC) PA  Gevelyn Corpuz, Chief, GADO, ASR of the Gender and Development Office of Headquarters – Philippine Army Signal Regiment through CPT Ann Jay Lei Merzo (SC). 

Their main objective in having me was to help address gender-related issues anchored in the Philippine Army’s efforts towards its vision of a world-class Philippine Army, that is a source of National pride.  From their observations, while army personnel were well-trained in Combat Procedures, they had no strong concept of social graces. Because of this, they found that personnel were caught in awkward moments during formal military occasions, and others even declined to participate due to a lack of confidence, highlighting the need for developing better social skills to handle such situations with ease and professionalism.

I started off the workshop with some experiential learning activities. First, we observed the participants’ behavior and actual manners in one-on-one interactions. We practiced dining etiquette. I taught them how to make proper introductions, along with other lessons in manners and personal behavior. These lessons are a vital part of personal branding training, as they teach individuals how to make a strong and respectful impression in any setting.

As a concluding activity, I asked all the participants to write down their plans of action for applying what they had learned about the true value of social graces.

One of the best pieces of wisdom I passed on to the participants that day is this: Social graces is really about respect and character. It shows integrity. And, unless you are anchored by the right motivation, it will be difficult to practice good etiquette. After all, it is what dictates how we respond, behave and direct our lives. Our plans and purposes always integrate and reflect our sources of inspiration and motivation.

I was surprised and nearly brought to tears when I saw their action plans. I knew then that my teachings penetrated their hearts, not simply by my own doing, but because I was gifted by my Lord and Savior with the talent to teach.

I’d like to share their answers with you, for your inspiration. You may zoom in to read, and be moved as I have been inspired and encouraged. Truly, it is experiences and people like these that motivate me even more to pursue my profession as a Brand Image Consultant.

The feedback I received after the workshop was so encouraging, and I headed home with a full heart. I didn’t even notice the stressful traffic caused by the Holiday Season! It was definitely worth my energy serving the participants that day. Here are some of the highlights from the session.

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Do your organization’s members present themselves at their personal and professional best? Do they make a positive first impression? Are they confident in social situations? 

If your team needs guidance in building confidence and enhancing etiquette, Radiance Image Consultancy can help. Our personality development training sessions empower professionals to elevate their image, strengthen their social presence, and communicate with authenticity and grace. Tell me what I can do for you, or simply share your thoughts by leaving a comment below. To learn more about what we offer, visit Radiance Image Consultancy today!

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

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What is an example of social grace?

An example of social grace in the Philippine Army Signal Regiment is showing respect through proper greetings and courteous language when addressing superiors and peers. It reflects discipline, professionalism, and the value of honor in every interaction.

How to develop social skills?

You can develop social skills by practicing active listening, empathy, and effective communication in daily interactions. Enrolling in personality development training can also help you build confidence and refine how you connect with others.